Helping high performing men rewrite their relationship with alcohol and substances
without AA, labels or judgment
This is for you if:
utmost confidentiality and privacy is essential (no medical or insurance records to follow you)
rehabs and traditional clinical treatment don't feel aligned with who you are or how you got here
you feel your family and career is being impacted by your drinking/substance use
you've tried controlling it on your own. it works for a while. then it doesn't
you're high functioning: AA and rock-bottom stories don't fit with your story
And maybe you work in one of the following industries:
law
finance
tech/engineering
sales/marketing
entrepreneurship
Meet Jake
I've been where you are. I hit my own wall with substances, moved through it, and retrained as a clinically licensed substance use subject matter expert.
What I proved is men like us needed something the existing system wasn't offering. I'm here to help you protect what matters most: your family, your career and your reputation before it costs you any more.
My clinical training didn't just give me credentials.
It showed me exactly what was missing for men like us and why nothing else out there was built specifically yet based on science for the high performer who needs something different from the traditional recovery path.
"When I met Jake, I had spent 10 years addicted to drugs and alcohol.
He genuinely cared about the person I was and wanted to help me get sober.
I would not have been successful without Jake and his sense of accountability. Jake's care and willingness to show me a different path and be a friend changed the trajectory of my life."
stop feeling like:
Alcohol or substances are running your life — not you
You're ashamed to show up fully for your kids and family
Your days are disappearing into drinking or using
You're waking up with gaps, regrets, and unanswered questions
You're just going through the motions, with no real sense of purpose
and start feeling like:
You're back in the driver's seat of your life and career
You're someone your family is proud of — and that you're proud of too
You have time and energy for the things that actually matter
You go to bed knowing exactly who you were that day
You have a clear vision for your future — and the support to build it
How does it work?
The substance use was never the root. It was the volume knob on your dissonance.
First, we land. We map out what the drinking or substance use was actually managing. Stress. Emptiness. Disconnection. Misalignment. Hustle culture. The dissonance you've been living inside.
We get underneath the behavior, and get to know that part of you better.
Next we clarify.
We define what a life you don't need to escape from actually looks like for you across your health, career, relationships and identity.
Then we launch. A concrete plan, accountability structure that holds up in real life, and the clarity you've been missing. This is where you stop managing your use and start leading yourself.
This happens through:
-1:1 and group IFS based coaching conversations
-Real time text messaging support
-Leadership assessment and readout
-Proven resources + techniques
“I truly believe working with Jake was when my son transitioned away from substance abuse.
Jake is a wonderful person who has a great deal of knowledge and a willingness to help others. He helps the person with not only a substance disorder but also the family. That is a person that I feel is great for helping families and the person with an addiction."
Work with Jake without risk…
If you actively implement the strategies, and are unhappy with the results and the end of your time together, Jake will provide free support until you get the results you want.